Neva Bayliss
December 29, 1923 – May 7, 2021
Isabella Neva George Dunsire Bayliss was born December 29, 1923 in the Manitoba Lake District. She was the 5th child in a family of 6 children.
They lived on the farm -where they grew grain, wheat; which didn’t ever do very well and oats for the horses. They also had a few cows, pigs and leghorn chickens which insisted on roosting in the trees. Every night one of Neva’s jobs was to shake the trees till the chickens came down then gather them up and put them in the hen house before dark. They had a big garden, potatoes, carrots, onions, beans, cabbage, and turnips — the turnips were for the cows to eat in the winter, which had to be cut into smaller pieces and fed to them as a whole turnip could choke a cow.
Around age 7 Neva would watch as Bert, Margaret and Alice cut down trees in the woods, which were then sawed into 4 foot lengths to make cord wood with a big two-man Swede saw. A cord of wood is 4 feet wide 4 feet high and 8 feet long —this would be traded for groceries at the grocery store.
Neva did not start school until she was eight years old when her and her younger brother Jim were taken to stay with their Aunt Jenny for a week at a time; Monday to Friday to go to school. Friday after school someone would come with the team of horses to pick them up and take them 7 miles home for the weekend, and then someone would take them back Sunday night to be ready for the next week of school. While staying there for school they both slept on one couch, one at each end.
At the age of 12 she moved to Winnipeg with her mother and younger brother Jim to continue their schooling, at Mullvy school. They continued with Neva going through grade 8 then the family moved to Vancouver to join her father, who was working as a carpenter on the new airport being built in the Queen Charlotte Islands.
In making the trip from Winnipeg to Vancouver Neva travelled with her mother, younger brother Jim, oldest sister Margaret, Margaret’s husband Bob and their three children, in a car with all their worldly goods being hauled behind in a trailer that Bob had made. This trip took about a week.
On arriving in Vancouver they set up a tent and camped in what is called the Old Orchard on Knight Road and Kingsway. It is still there and still referred to as the Old Orchard. They spent a week camping there while looking to find a house to rent. There were 6 to 8 other groups tenting there and also looking for housing.
When she was 18, Neva wrote to the recruiting centre inquiring about joining the Air Force, but did not get an answer. On a Friday in May of 1941, after school she went down to the recruiting office to see why they hadn’t answered her letter. As she was 18 at the time they signed her up right then and there. She was signed up on a Friday night and Tuesday morning she was on the train heading to east for basic training.
Her mother wrote her father to say that Neva was joining the military and he wrote back to saying *over my dead body* and not to let her go, but by the time the letter got back she was already in Ottawa at basic training.
After one month in Ottawa training she was sent to Moncton to #8SFTF which stood for service flying training school. This was the last training the pilots received before they were sent overseas and the barracks Neva was in was at the end of the runway so it was always quite noisy, as training went on 24 hours a day.
After that she was posted to Vancouver Pat Bay where she worked in the officer’s mess for 3 months and then was moved to the switchboard as a telephone operator.
She met and married Maurice Bayliss and they moved to Lucky Lake to farm and raise a family of 6 children. The farm is still in the family, although it is rented out.
Neva was born with a serious spirit of adventure.
She staked a lot and built a cabin on the BC coast at the age of 17 and 18. Neva, her father and a family friend moved all the materials for the cabin to the site in an older motor boat, nearly losing their lives at one point as they were still learning about the ocean tides.
She loved training horses and worked with them and the cattle and all the animals on the farm. She also drove grain trucks, tractors and combines, truly being a full partner in the farming operation.
She was a Cub leader in Lucky Lake as well as a Guide leader and district Commissioner.
She loved the outdoors, plants, birds and animals. She planted, grew and recorded growth statistics on fruit trees from Professor Patterson to see which fruit trees would survive and thrive in Saskatchewan.
She was a member of the Legion and always attended the Remembrance Day services.
She ordered a pattern from the Western Producer and built a rowboat so her kids could learn to row and swim in the dugout.
She lived in her cabin at Coteau Beach for many years, always enjoying being in the beauty of this province.
Neva and some friends drove from Saskatoon to Alaska; camping all the way there and back on one of her adventures. They were all in their 60’s at the time.
She attended and enjoyed many Air Force reunions.
She also did a working barge trip up the inside passage from Vancouver to Alaska.
She cooked at an oil rig camp, and also at a northern Saskatchewan fishing/ moose hunting camp, where she made lifelong friends.
She went moose hunting and slept out in a sleeping bag under a tarp to awaken in the morning with 5 inches of snow on top of them.
She has rafted on the Nahanni River, North West Territories with a good friend.
She has canoed from Gardiner dam to Saskatoon with her son Bob and grandson Chris, spending a night camping on the way.
She made many annual trips to the Okanagan Valley, driving with a dear friend to bring home a truckload of fruit for our two families, much of which the families then worked to preserve for the winter.
She journeyed to Churchill on a polar bear watching trip, and was delighted when a really big bear came up for them to see. She was also disappointed as one big bear means fewer small ones around.
She made a trip to Ontario to meet her first great great grandchild in 2016 at the age of 93.
She was a member of Prairieland Park, the Natural History Society, and a couple different writings groups – Memory Writers and Silver Quills.
She belonged to an exercise group which she attended and participated in faithfully until she was well into her 90’s.
She was a published writer with a number of short stories sold to the Saskatchewan History and Folklore Society magazine.
She has been to Scotland a couple of times, and climbed castle steps. She has been to Mexico a couple of times, and enjoyed visiting the Mayan ruins.
She is predeceased by her husband, her parents, all her siblings, her son John and some nephews and nieces.
She is survived by daughters Arla (Ron) Delver, Heather (Arnie) Usselman, and sons Phil, Stan, Bob (Sherry) Bayliss, 5 grandchildren, 5 great grandchildren and 2 great great grandchildren, many nieces, nephews and cousins, and lifelong friends.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Lucky Lake History Book Committee Box 387 Lucky Lake Saskatchewan S0L 1Z0 in her name.
An invite only Funeral will take place on Saturday, May 15, 2021 at 1:00 pm.
Arrangements entrusted to Dalmeny Funeral Home 306-254-2022.
38 Comments
Such an interesting and well-lived life. Our condolences to Stan, Phil ,Arla, Ron, heather and Arnie, Bob and Heather. We had so much fun with all of you and Neva at the horseshoe tournaments in Chilliwack!
Diane and Larry Bowthorpe -Edmonton
Diane and family, thank you. We met in 1994 and Mom met you soon after. To say we enjoyed and appreciated the horseshoe tournaments is an understatement. Thank you too for taking the kids to Cultus Lake. The kids still talk about what a fun day they had. Best wishes, Arla
Neva had such a full life! While reading the obituary, I could hear her voice telling the stories. Lovely tribute. She will be missed by many. My condolences to all the family.
Thank you Cori.
Mom loved being your roommate and hearing about what you were studying.
Xo Heather💕
Thanks Cory. More stories are surfacing as we call older relatives and RCAF friends. Mom touches many lives in many ways.
The world has lost a treasure. I met Neva when she was in her 80’s; she was still very active and interested in everything. She was one of the kindest and most giving of people I have ever met. I loved her sense of humor and her open, inquiring mind. I would have loved to have a few more visits with you, but this pandemic has taken so much from us. I will miss you. Rest in Peace beautiful lady. Condolences to her family,
Donnell thank you. Anita and Mom were like soulmates which gave them both happiness in their later years. We still miss Anita too. The photo display includes one of Anita and Mom madly helping pick tomatoes at our farm as the frost warning was for that night! Please stay in touch. Arla
Just watched the beautiful service on my computer; loved hearing all the stories and memories. I will always cherish my memories of picking berries and asparagus with your mom and Anita. She was so generous, inviting Anita and I on a plane ride to view our beautiful city—–also inviting us out to the cottage, I had one of the best meals ever out there; a chicken and produce from the Farmer’s Market which they frequented every Saturday morning. I was so looking forward to another person-to-person visit with your mom once this Covid pandemic was over, but not to be. I will miss her.
Just read your mother’s obituary. I remember you speaking fondly of your mother on our bus
trips. ( I really miss our trips and comaraderie) She was a lady ahead of her times. What a
wonderful example of adventure and tenacity she has left all of you to remember.
Laurel, thank you. Yes, Mom was ahead of her times in so many ways. Although her education was less than she wished for, she never stopped learning. She was a “teacher” who instilled knowledge and skills with the recipients not aware they were being taught.
The Matador Ranch to Coteau Beach Tour included many of Mom’s suggestions.
All the best, Arla and Ron
Thank you Diane
The horseshoe tournaments were a highlight for our family for sure.
Xo Heather💕
so sad to hear of another :neighbour” gone, my condolances to all of you at this time, thoughts and prayers are with you. I still have memories of a “Guide trip” to Candle lake with Neva and mom, so many laughs and adventures,
Thanks Jo-Anne. We did have many good times. Your Mom was so good to me in that trip too..long story. Both Moms loved bird watching and enjoyed it together and comparing notes.
Your family and ours were connected by the Girl Guide program in Lucky Lake. I remember the hot July day when we cooked chuckwagon stew out in the pasture over a campfire near Spring Lake for cub jamboree, who comes up with these ideas? A legacy of jumping out of the gate and getting it done, rest in peace.
Carole, thank you. Yes cooking stew! And guess who came up with winter camping at Hitchock and in your pasture?? We nearly frozen as the temperature suddenly dropped.
Our sincere sympathy on the loss of your mom, grandma & great/great grandma.. not many families get to speak of great-greats., but, the Bayliss family can.. all the life stories tell of how great, great she really was. We are thinking of all of you,, with much love , Rob & Lenore
What a life! Your mom was an amazing woman who clearly embraced everything! Though I only got to know her at Sherbrooke, she struck me as a very wise woman. You will treasure her memories.
Thank you Heather. Yes we were fortunate in so many ways with Mom. Once her life story is completed we will provide a copy to Sherbrooke. We are grateful to all the staff who went the “extra mile” for Mom especially this past year when visitors were restricted.
We were very sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom. It is so very hard to lose a parent. Your Mom was so energetic, adventurous and hard working! May all your wonderful memories of your Mom keep her close to yours hearts always! Our sincere sympathy to all of the Bayliss family! Take care!
Sorry to hear of your Loss! Your Mom was really a very ‘special lady’ So kind to everyone; Thinking of you all❤️🌹❤️
Gailene Robinson(Pinnell)
Gailene, It was so nice you took the time for the lovely visit we had before Covid hit. Mom thoroughly enjoyed it and we talked about it many times. Thank you. Arla
I am so sorry for your loss. I have enjoyed getting to know Neva over the past 2 years caring for her at the nursing home. We miss her stories and her humour greatly!
Chelsey, thank you . Mom appreciated all of you who took the time to listen and discuss her life stories. Arla
My condolences to the family . The tribute shows a life well lived and a wonderful family legacy .
I’m so sorry for all of your loss. I Loved the time that I was able to spend with Neva. She was an amazing woman and is so dearly missed!!
Krista, thank you . We really appreciated the extra time staff spent with Mom listening and discuss her adventures, especially during these restrictive times. Arla
I just watched your mom’s service on live stream. What a lovely tribute to a beautiful lady. There are so few of that generation left and each one lost leaves us only with memories. Those memories, both good and bad, are the legacy left to us of a wonderful life here on earth that take us through our own lives. It is so touching to hear the stories told by sons and daughters, grandchildren and friends that show just how much your mother meant to so many people. Wishing all of you comfort, peace and the joy of having had such a wonderful mother and grandmother.
Bev, thank you for your lovely comments. We were fortunate to have Mom for many reasons and for so long and so healthy. Arla
Our deepest sympathy to the Bayliss family. Her memories will be with all of you forever..
Flo and Keith, thank you for the beautiful arrangement. We really appreciate it. We do have lots of memories that we will hold close. Arla
Condolences to family on the loss of a very special person. We met Neva through Anita . The two of them had many adventures. One of those adventures was to our Dundurn farm to pick asparagus each year about this time. There were 5 ladies , mostly in their 80s and they would come and pick it clean. We called them our asparagus combine. After picking they stopped for coffee and goodies at our picnic site and Les always had his fill of goodies. The last asparagus to Neva was delivered to Riverside Terrace. She was always so grateful and gracious. Rest in peace.
Inga and Les, one of the spring highlights for Mom and Anita was picking asparagus with you. Mom always appreciated your willingness to share knowledge with her especially because of her interest in local agriculture. And, Mom’s long friendship with Anita (and Anita’s family) had a very special spot in Mom’s heart. Arla
A beautiful tribute to an amazing Lady. Neva touched the lives of so many and reached the souls of so many more. Remembering family gatherings East and West will always put smiles on our faces and forever remind us how fortunate we were to have Neva in our lives. May her incredible legacy carry on through her family. Arla Ron Heather Arnie Stan Philip Bob Sherry and your families. We send you our LOVE and with time may you find peace in your hearts.
Robbie and Marni Dunsire-Chilliwack BC
Thank you Marni and Rob. The horseshoe tournaments and reunions were highlights that Mom looked forward too, along with us. I’m still amazed at the wonderful comments about things Mom did for nieces and nephews before she left Vancouver. When Covid us finally behind us we will come out for a visit..
My deepest condolences to the entire family on the passing of Neva. I got to know Neva while she resided in the Veterans Village at Sherbrooke. We spent a fair amount of time together particularly over the last 6 months. I loved and admired her stories, her independent personality, her determination and her interest and caring nature for all of us at Sherbrooke. I grew to love her as a friend and I am really missing her. She will always remain in my heart as an example of resilience and a life truly well lived. I am a better person for having known her. Rest In Peace my friend Neva.
Janine
Thank you. We truly appreciate the wonderful care you gave mom in Veterans Village.
Heather
Dearest Niva,
It was beautiful and inspiring to witness you and Mom (Anita Betker) form a loving friendship late in life. When Mom passed, you inherited my ‘hey Mom, how do you do …..’ calls. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, life story, love and humour with me. I only wish I could have done more to protect you from the pain COVID brought into your life.
My sister, Wendy, says Mom was waiting for you up there and you are already off on more adventures.
What are they doing in heaven today,
Where sin and sorrow are all done away?
Peace abounds like a river, they say.
What are they doing there now?
I love you Neva.
Daphne Boyer
Daphne
Thank you so much, mom truly loved your mom and missed every minute that she was gone.
I’m sure they are having a wonderful time back together.
Heather
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